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Lots of HandgunsBe sure you’ve read my title the right way. That would be, How many guns do we need?” with incredulity and frustration in your voice.

I’m writing this article primarily for our female audience. It may help men understand us, perhaps, but it’s addressed to women. (And just maybe it will help men understand how to persuade us of something that they instinctively know.)

You see, I want to spend a few minutes with our female audience talking about why you need more than one gun. Men never seem to need such an explanation or an argument for this – they’re always OK with buying another gun.

When Phil and I started buying handguns a while ago, my questions before every purchase were, “Why do we need another gun?” and “What’s the purpose for this new gun?” Any purchase that exceeds our individual spending limit (which includes all of our gun purchases) have to be agreed upon by both of us. That means hubby needs my permission to make a purchase, and vice versa.

Once I became convinced that we needed to buy a gun for personal protection, I thought we would only need one gun. I figured it would be Phil’s concealed carry gun.

Shortly thereafter I agreed that after I became more comfortable with guns, I’d want a concealed carry gun for me, too. So the logical question for me at first was, “Which is the one best gun for me to carry?” Once we had the answer to that question, that’s what I would buy.

After much reading and research, we decided that we both wanted to carry a 9mm handgun. We judge it powerful enough to serve our needs with ammunition that was more affordable than other caliber options. We weren’t confident that a .22 (even a .22 magnum) would stop a threat, and a caliber bigger than a 9mm would be too much for a novice’s everyday carry (EDC) gun. So we decided that the best choice for us would be a 9mm semi-automatic.

But then Phil began to talk to me about the wisdom of buying a .22-caliber handgun first. “It’s a better gun to learn with,” he said. “Why not learn with the gun you’re going to carry every day?” I countered. Phil explained about the cost of ammunition. It’s significantly lower for a .22 than a 9mm, so the cost-effective way for new gun owners to become proficient at handling and shooting a handgun was to buy a .22 to use for most of our practice, and a 9mm for everyday carry. And we were both adamant that we become proficient with handguns before we began carrying one. That means lots of practice.

OK, I was now at the point where I could agree to two guns — with a plan to buy a third. We’d get a .22 for cheap practice, a 9mm carry gun for Phil, and eventually another 9mm for me to carry.

But I’m getting ahead of myself.

Our first purchase was a Smith & Wesson Model 22A, the same gun that I used to pass my concealed carry license test. We call this gun “Ray” because with its long, flat-topped barrel it looks like a ray gun. But at that trip to the gun store, Phil found another gun that he wanted, one that didn’t fit neatly into our purchasing plan. It was too big and heavy to carry as an EDC gun and it was a .40-caliber, which is larger than the 9mm size we had agreed on. So I asked him, “What do we need this gun for?” Phil was ready with a convincing sales pitch, of course. Neither of us was trained enough to begin to carry a concealed weapon, but we had both gotten to the point where we agreed that we needed to have a gun in the house to protect ourselves. We weren’t comfortable depending on a .22 for that, so this big .40-cal Springfield XD would be our “home defense” gun. Since it wouldn’t be carried concealed, we could get one that was bigger, heavier, and more powerful than what we intended to eventually carry.

“OK,” I said, “I’ll go along with that.” So we bought “Dave.” And that’s two guns.

We started going to the range at least once a week to learn how to safely and competently use our new guns. While we felt that we weren’t really qualified to carry one yet, we quickly got to the point where we wanted to go shopping for what would become our EDC guns. Fortunately, our closest gun shop had a wide selection of carry guns to choose from.

After handling what seemed like dozens of candidates, we each arrived at a decision. Phil fell in love with a sexy little Italian, the Beretta Px4 Storm compact model in 9mm.  (OK, I have to confess. Phil proofread this blog before posting. He’s the one that added the phrase “sexy little Italian” to describe his gun, not me.) Meanwhile, I found one that felt like it was custom-made for my hand — a thin and lightweight Ruger LC9. We gave our new guns names so we could talk about them in public places without alerting those around us what we were talking about. Phil’s Beretta became known as Betty and my Ruger LC9 was called Elsie.

For those of you who are keeping score, we’re up to four guns now: a practice .22 (Ray), a .40-caliber home defense gun (Dave), and two 9mm concealed carry guns (Betty and Elsie). Technically, two of them are mine, one is Phil’s and one is ours (if you’re really keeping score).

Our weekly dates at the range were a lot of fun, but they had an element of frustration to them, too.  Spending half the time at the range waiting for my turn to shoot the .22 wasn’t my idea of a good use of my time or Phil’s. After several trips to the range I was saying (much to my husband’s delight), “OK, now I see why we need a second .22.” So it was back to the gun shop where Phil selected what would be his .22 practice gun, a Ruger SR22. Gun #5. He calls it the Blackbird.

How many guns do we need? I would think five would be more than enough, especially since just a few months earlier I thought one would be sufficient.

Well, not quite.

I loved the size and shape of Elsie, but every time I shot her my index finger got pinched between the trigger and the trigger guard, so much so that it caused a blood blister. We tried all kinds of things, including having a gunsmith shave a little off the tip of the trigger. Still, I couldn’t shoot it without getting my finger pinched. That meant I couldn’t practice with her, which in my book means I can’t reliably shoot her, which sadly meant that she ultimately wasn’t a good choice for me. (In reading numerous online gun forums, Phil found only one other person that has had that problem with the LC9…and Phil does a lot of reading.)

Let the novice gun buyer beware — the first gun (or holster) that you buy for any specific purpose is likely to not meet your needs the way that you hoped. Sometimes you have to live with a gun for a while to come to find its pluses and minuses. So it was with Phil and his beloved Beretta, too. He loved to shoot Betty, but she was just too thick for him to conceal easily. So Phil inherited my Elsie as his carry gun and we went shopping for a replacement for me to carry.

Despite my issues with Elsie, I had become a real Ruger fan. They tend to be very comfortable in my hand, they have a solid feel to them, and they’re very reasonably priced. One of Phil’s female co-workers had just bought a Ruger SR9c compact 9mm. I handled one at the gun shop and really liked the feel of it, but I was determined not to buy it without trying it first. They have a range in the basement of that store, so they let me test-fire it to see if it gave me the same finger pinching problems that I had with Elsie. It didn’t, so it went home with me that day. Gun #6. We called my new 9c “Nancy.”

I bought Nancy for a carry gun, but I soon found that Nancy was quite a lot bigger and heavier than my sleek little Elsie had been. It was like carrying a brick in my purse. Wearing it on my body was out of the question. This wasn’t going to work.

I didn’t want to get rid of her, but what’s the purpose of a gun that’s too big and heavy to carry concealed? To borrow a line of reasoning from Phil, Nancy became home defense gun #2. Our house has two floors plus a basement. We spend a lot of time on each of the three levels. I decided that I didn’t want to be in the basement and need to go to the bedroom on the second floor to get a gun if someone broke into the house. We work from home in an office in our basement. Having a weapon within reach during the many hours we spend at our desks is a wise practice, so Phil found a holster designed to be mounted on the bottom of my desktop. I love it!

But this repurposing of Nancy left me once again without a carry gun. My first EDC was now Phil’s EDC and my second one was now our office defense gun.

The hottest selling concealed carry gun at that time was the new Smith & Wesson M&P Shield. This was touted by many gun writers and a growing legion of owners as “the perfect gun.” Perfect in every way except availability. It was almost impossible to find one to even inspect, much less buy. Our favorite gun shop (for whom we were quickly becoming their favorite customers) couldn’t keep them in stock, but one of their salesmen was using the Shield as his EDC, and he let me check it out. I think they were right. This very well may be the perfect carry gun. I placed an order for one in 9mm (it also comes in .40-cal.) and waited four months for it to arrive.

A lot can change over the course of four months. I was elated when we got the call saying that my new Shield was ready to pick up, so much so that we left work early to go get it. Gun #7. But when we got it home I was surprised, and more than a little disappointed, to see just how large it was. It was bigger than I remembered it being in the store. Upon getting it home, I realized that yes, it was nice and thin like Elsie had been, but the overall height and length were bigger than Elsie.

I’ve been struggling with how to carry a concealed handgun. I really want to wear it on my body, rather than carrying it in a purse. But it seems that women’s bodies have more curves than men’s bodies and guns have more angles than curves. In other words, carrying a concealed weapon is much easier for men than women. As much as I wanted to carry the Shield, I just couldn’t find a way that worked for me except carrying in my purse.

So in the midst of my frustration, Phil began to do some more research and talked to me about considering a .380-caliber gun. A .380 bullet is the same diameter as a 9mm, but it’s shorter and therefore a bit less powerful. I was totally against this, largely for practical reasons. I didn’t want to have to buy and stock another kind of ammo. But Phil had just read an article in a gun magazine that put forth the argument for having guns of several different calibers as a hedge against scarcity of ammo in any specific caliber. If 9mm ammo is in short supply and all you have are 9mm guns, you’re in trouble. I’m sorry, but that argument didn’t convince me. I didn’t want to buy another gun. How many guns do we need???!!! (And perhaps it’s time for Phil to quit reading…)

Well, we went shopping for ammo one day and he dragged me over to the gun case to try out some .380s.

After handling a few different brands in a wide variety of prices, I found a great one, which happened to be the least expensive of the bunch! My new gun is a Taurus 738 TCP. It’s actually small enough for me to carry concealed on my person and I can shoot it well.

That’s now five guns that have been bought for me alone! A .22, three 9mm’s, and now a .380. All are still in service, all fulfilling different purposes. I’ve opted to keep the Shield because it’s a good gun and there will be times when I choose to carry it instead of the .380. And if you’re keeping score, we’ve bought two for Phil (a .22 and a 9mm) and an additional home defense gun (.40 cal). And that makes eight!

So the bottom line is that now we’ve got a bunch of guns in four different calibers. And I still consider each purchase to have been a wise one. Each one has a specific purpose. Some have been re-purposed, but we’ve found an appropriate use for each one.

How many guns do we need? Well, you might be surprised at your answer to that question. You might need a couple for different areas of your house. You might need a couple different sizes and calibers to accommodate the different type of clothes that you wear (summer, winter, casual, dressy).

Ask a woman how many purses she needs, or how many pairs of shoes she has. We know very well that we “need” more than one purse or pair of shoes for the different ways that we dress. I’ve come to understand that it’s the same with guns. Yes, it’s possible to make do with just one, but for many gun owners — especially women! — it’s pretty hard to find one single, all-purpose gun that works well for every situation or change of clothes. Owning multiple guns in multiple sizes and calibers just makes sense.

If you had told me a few years ago that I’d be OK with that, I’d have said, “Are you kidding me? How many guns do we need???!!!”

Wait a minute. I did say that. Times change.

PS: Don’t keep your guns in a pile like the photo. Treat them with respect. The photo is just an image.

PPS: Before we bought any guns, we attended an NRA Basic Handgun Safety and Ohio Conceal Carry class which included time at a range with the instructor. If you’re new to guns, we recommend training. I’m currently participating in a Women’s Action Pistol (WAP) class and we’re signed up for an NRA Home Protection class. The WAP is at the range and gives me practical experience drawing the gun and shooting in a fast but controlled manner, shooting while moving away from the target, and other good defensive shooting practices. The Home Protection class focuses on how to handle a gun for self protection in your home.

18 Responses to How Many Handguns Do We Need?

  • Tristan says:

    Concerned about rifles? Or are you relying on handguns? Most preppers try to keep the same caliber weapons to reduce the different ammo they have to buy.

    Trade in what you don’t need and get an AR or an AK…you’ll pay thru the nose for ammo, but I’d still get a rifle over multiple handguns.

    • Thanks for the comment, Tristan. Yep, we have some rifles. I was just dealing with handguns here. In all honesty, having gone from no guns to all the handguns we have, still shocks me a bit. We have a couple of long guns and will probably post about them soon. I’m not as comfortable with them as my husband…All in good time. Your advice is good.

  • D and D says:

    I can’t wait until my wife wakes up to read this! It is so much like the process we went through to end up with six guns for every trigger finger in the house…

  • Out2Sea says:

    Your article is so funny, you sound just like me. I started with a Taurus 9mm. Then moved on to a Kel-Tec .380 (that is my year round carry weapon, use Hydro Shock ammo), added a Ruger SR9c for my car, Ruger 40 cal for the house. Along with 2 Mossburg 12 gauge shotguns. Beretta CX4 Storm carbine (just for fun). Next on my list is a FN P90 Bullpup design, just because is is so cool looking (and can hold 100 rounds). My husband has everything I have and then some 🙂

    • Glad to hear I’m not the only one out there. Loved your comment “(just for fun). ” I never thought it would be fun, but it sure is. It still amazes me. Good to get to know you a bit.

  • Tpdoldie says:

    Same story in our house. When the wife went to the range with me the first time, I thought I would get off easy-that is a 22 DA revolver. That failed when she fell in love with a 45. Due to my job and the need to carry a 40; she agreed to have a 40. Started with my recently retired Smith 40.
    She gave me a Glock 23 for duty carry and at the range fell in love with it. She got her own G23. That lasted awhile until the size and weight gave way to a trip to a gun store where she selected a Glock 27.
    She carried it until the next gun show when she found the Smith Bodyguard 380. Oh, she has her own Charter Undercover but she trusts her Bodyguard.
    Love it, only problem is that if I buy myself a gun, she gets one.

      • tpdoldie says:

        Just had to re-read the article. After just retiring after almost 4 decades of LE, decided that one can not own too many guns. Carefully secured around one’s property means that something is within a few steps at all time. Yes we added shotguns/rifles to the mix, really reach out and touch. Totally agree with the statement about ammo, a gun with no ammo is just a paper weight or a club.
        Keep up the fantastic work

  • Charlotte Tuttle says:

    Yeah…awesome article. I never thought I’d own a gun, and now have two. Wonder how long it will be before I have three!?

  • Lou says:

    Boy, you folks are coming up with great articles! As an honest-to-goodness expert, please let me share some thoughts.
    Guns are tools. the multitude of various firearm types are intended to best facilitate their intended uses. You can drive a screw into a board with a hammer. But a hammer was never intended for this, and you can make a total mess of the job.
    Handguns are for close up self defense. Handguns and their ammo are designed for 25 yards or less. Think of your self defense handgun like the parachute worn by a fighter pilot. The pilot prays that his life will never have to depend on a few dollars worth of nylon, and string. But if it does, it must work perfectly the first time.
    Shotguns are generally designed to dependably put game animals on your table at distances out to 50 yards.
    Long guns are designed for longer distances. Small caliber rifles like the .22, when used with skill, can also put small game onto your table, and with a telescopic sight can be effective out to and somewhat beyond 100 yards, though usually 50 yards is better.
    High powered rifles are intended for harvesting larger game from a groundhog to a moose, and out to even half a mile distance in some cases.
    Military rifles are intended for the chaos of war. Shooting many rounds, and many enemies, and over typical combat distances.
    Of course, you will find some blurring of uses across the above platforms, as you become more knowledgeable about guns. But the general rule is that you will need to give much thought to what actual uses you’ll use a firearm for, to determine what types of firearms you’ll likely need. Of course there are those who think that they need at least one of everything just in case they should ever have use for it………..
    For concealed carry, you’ll need a handgun. My advice is to have one that you will actually carry. If it’s too big and heavy, chances are you’ll start leaving it home. But don’t fool yourself into thinking that some smaller caliber weenie gun is just at effective as some cannon. It’s not. The general rule is that you could carry the largest caliber that you can safely handle.
    If I was starting out from scratch (no gun), I would begin with an inexpensive shotgun, like the Mossberg 500, and in 12 gauge. Many different types of barrels are available for a variety of tasks, from home defense to large and small game. Many types of stocks are available, and barrels and stocks can be changed out to reconfigure the gun in minutes. A vast assortment of types of ammo is available for various applications, and shotgun shells are more available and cheaper than other ammo in these times of scarcity. Though you can’t carry the shotgun concealed on your person, it will serve for all other prepper needs like home defense, meat harvesting of all types, and is devastating tactically out to 30 yards.
    Best wishes, and I hope this helps.

    • Thank you for the comprehensive comment. We appreciate you sharing your knowledge and experience with us and our readers. I agree that it’s critical to know what purpose you want a gun for and to find the best possible “tool” to fulfill that purpose. And then you need to get some training with it. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts. We hope you stick around.

  • Fleendar the Magnificent says:

    To answer your question of *how many* guns do you need, one must keep in mind that you can have 1 million guns, but without ammo, the ability to reload almost instantly when dry, and without the knowledge on how to effectively *use* said guns, you may as well be naked and defenseless.

    To put it in perspective, from MY POV, I have enough guns (and MORE than enough ammo), that while I am shooting, my wife and/or son can be reloading (or firing too). However, my wife is from Japan where only the police/military (and a few heavily restricted civilian hunters) own guns, and while she doesn’t complain about me having guns and teaching our kids responsible gun ownership, gun safety, hunting and responsibility, she has no desire to learn how to operate and shoot a gun. Contrary though, in bad times, she WOULD use a gun(she *has* shot my handguns before) and would reload for me.

    I recommend that you have as many guns as you can quickly reload when in a firefight. No matter if you have 1 or 1 million guns, if you’re in a hostile Charlie-Foxtrot situation, if you can’t reload em fast, they’re worthless. The adage I go by is…. If you’re not shooting, you should be reloading. If you’re not reloading, you should be shooting. If you’re doing neither, then you are DEAD.

    Lastly. As done during the civil war (and other wars), teach your family/friends/survivalist friends (AND non combatants) how to reload your weapons to have on the ready. When the first one’s spent on ammo, while you’re firing the other, *someone* should be reloading your FIRST weapon! It’s a cycle that will, if people are trained right, make sure that you *always* have a fresh weapon at the ready. The more people you have with you, at the time of the firefight, the MORE guns that can be reloaded and quicker.

    Duty above all else than honor.

    • Hey, Fleendar – It took me awhile to get to the point of imagining having any more than one gun. Or maybe two – one for me and one for my husband. Obviously I’ve learned how foolish that thinking was. I appreciate your comments about needing to know how to use them. Absolutely agree. We’re still learning, but it became a priority as soon as we recognized the need to own guns. Interesting thought about relating how many guns you have to reloading when empty. I hadn’t thought about it from that perspective. Thanks for writing.

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